3. Someone to genuinely care.

    Just once. I want someone to really be there for me. Not just ask me what’s wrong for the sake of asking or ask for the sake of knowing. Just once I want someone to listen to me, to actually listen to me and care and not just hear me. To stay being there for me till I’m actually really okay before leaving me on my own. I just want someone to make an effort and really be there for me for a change. To say that they will be there for me and actually meant every word of it. I just hope for someone who will genuinely care for me. And maybe for once I can stop being someone’s someone and be that someone that needs a someone.

  5. Sometimes, when people are sad, nothing can really bring them back up right away. Simple words, good advice, or even the people around them trying to make them happy can’t make them happy just like that. We should never tell someone to just be happy and forget about what’s holding them down, because we’re not dealing with the pain in their heart. It takes time and patience for someone to get back up. It’s not that easy.

    ficklemindedher:

    jasbomb:

    loonghair-dontcare:

    that-flip-chick:

    xo-xena:

    (via reeannesmiles, jasbomb)

    oh wow, this post is literally spreading faster than aids. Thanks guys. Heads up.

  6. psycholust: POSSIBLE REASONS WHY PEOPLE FEAR COMMITMENT 1. Past Relationships that Have Gone Wrong If you have ever been in a relationship that has gone horribly wrong, then you know that it can change your opinion on all relationships. You know that when you first went into that past relationship, you went in happy and then you came out miserable. When a new relationship presents itself, you can’t help but think, “Do I really want to do that again?”. 2. Lifestyle Change Some people are very content in their single lifestyle. They may want to have a relationship with someone that they love, but they are not willing to give up the freedom that living and sleeping alone affords them. How do you know that you will be as happy if you allow someone else into your life? 3. Parents Let’s face it, our parents’ behavior can affect us for the rest of our lives. So, if your parents had a less than ideal relationship, perhaps you are afraid to relive what you saw them go through. 4. Control Most commitments require some sort of compromise and this can feel like a loss of control. A lot of people like to have full control over their lives and don’t want to give even the tiniest bit of control to another person. This fear of losing control can stem from other issues. 5. Fear of Ultimate Rejection The nature of commitment is to give part of yourself to someone else. Whether it is a simple promise to be with no one else or if it is deciding to live together, you are giving something. There is always the possibility that, in the end, the person that you have given this to, will no longer want it. If you eventually wind up being happy with the commitment and it ends this way, it can be heartbreaking. 6. Fear of Change Commitment and change often go hand in hand. Even if it is something very small that changes about your life when you commit, that change is still there. If you are the type of person who fears change, then chances are, you fear commitment. 7. Lack of Trust Some people find it very difficult to trust another. This could stem from a lot of issues and it can cause other issues, such as fear of commitment. How can you commit to someone if you feel that you cannot trust them? 8. Fear of Loss In a way this cause is also the fear of emotional closeness. If you have lost someone very close to you in your life, then you know that it can be devastating. You may not want to commit to a deep relationship, for fear that you will lose this person as well.

    psycholust:

    POSSIBLE REASONS WHY PEOPLE FEAR COMMITMENT

    1. Past Relationships that Have Gone Wrong

    If you have ever been in a relationship that has gone horribly wrong, then you know that it can change your opinion on all relationships. You know that when you first went into that past relationship, you went in happy and then you came out miserable. When a new relationship presents itself, you can’t help but think, “Do I really want to do that again?”.

    2. Lifestyle Change

    Some people are very content in their single lifestyle. They may want to have a relationship with someone that they love, but they are not willing to give up the freedom that living and sleeping alone affords them. How do you know that you will be as happy if you allow someone else into your life?

    3. Parents

    Let’s face it, our parents’ behavior can affect us for the rest of our lives. So, if your parents had a less than ideal relationship, perhaps you are afraid to relive what you saw them go through.

    4. Control

    Most commitments require some sort of compromise and this can feel like a loss of control. A lot of people like to have full control over their lives and don’t want to give even the tiniest bit of control to another person. This fear of losing control can stem from other issues.

    5. Fear of Ultimate Rejection

    The nature of commitment is to give part of yourself to someone else. Whether it is a simple promise to be with no one else or if it is deciding to live together, you are giving something. There is always the possibility that, in the end, the person that you have given this to, will no longer want it. If you eventually wind up being happy with the commitment and it ends this way, it can be heartbreaking.

    6. Fear of Change

    Commitment and change often go hand in hand. Even if it is something very small that changes about your life when you commit, that change is still there. If you are the type of person who fears change, then chances are, you fear commitment.

    7. Lack of Trust

    Some people find it very difficult to trust another. This could stem from a lot of issues and it can cause other issues, such as fear of commitment. How can you commit to someone if you feel that you cannot trust them?

    8. Fear of Loss

    In a way this cause is also the fear of emotional closeness. If you have lost someone very close to you in your life, then you know that it can be devastating. You may not want to commit to a deep relationship, for fear that you will lose this person as well.

    (via ficklemindedher)

  9. (Source: aysayako, via ladygirlish)

  10. “I vow to love you, and no matter what challenges might carry us apart, we will always find a way back to each other.” -Leo (The Vow)

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